Changing Others? LisaOnTheGo Blogger

(youtube video of the blog at the end of the page, excluding Laura Fontane's Facebook Live Talk)

Changing Others? Could you make someone else change? LISAonthego says no. For her to change is by her own will.

This is accomplished by a choice or decision she made that didn’t go the way she anticipated. This could be negative or positive. However, the outcome impacted or influenced her life that she wanted to change.

Change isn’t always easy positive or negative. It's changing into the unknown; it’s uncomfortable and different.

LISAonthego will take the situation or event and process it. Typically, first her ego chatter mind and then she will go within and listen to her heart. Going within and listening to her heart gives her the direction she wants to take. Then a change for her could occur.

Could others influence a change?

LISAonthego says yes, absolutely. You make a choice or decision, and others give their opinions. Their opinions are usually not ones she had processed. People could be upset, angry or laughing and think it’s funny. However, listening to their viewpoints on your choices or decisions could influence change.

Laura Fontane did a Facebook Live, very well done Laura, thank you. LISAonthego thought about her talk, and the blog came upon to write.

How could a change occur? In Laura’s talk (humorously done) she talked about her children and said:

Child: Mom could I use the car?

Laura: Is your room clean?

Child: No.

Laura: Then no.

Child: Mom could I have money for the movies?

Laura: Is your room clean?

Child: No.

Laura: Then no.

Child: What’s for dinner?

Laura: Are the dishes clean?

Child: No.

Laura: Then no clean dishes for dinner

Laura your imitation on Facebook live was awesome and very funny. However, here a change could be made. A child could choose to clean their room and dishes; in exchange to have the car, money and clean dishes for dinner. We can’t make someone do something. However, we could influence them and if it’s important to you; something you want, then you could make the change. In these circumstances, everyone wins.

Love, Laughter & Peace, LISAonthego

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