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LISAonthego Discussions. LISAonthego has her philosophy of being understood or to understand someone or something else. They have been times in her life she has been misquoted or misunderstood. LISAonthego feels she is different than most, more sensitive and is an out-of-the-box thinker. She thinks everyone could understand her. Only to find out, that no, the other person took it out of context or gave it there own meaning. She is learning to stop herself and truly look at the other person, facial expressions to see if they understood. LISAonthego just thinks everyone thinks like her and interprets things the same way. As you know, with life experience you learn this just is not so. At a meeting this morning LISAonthego met and was talking to a career coach about Spiritualfitnessonthego and the ins and outs of the business, website and she recognized that look. She assumed this person understood the basic of the website being videos, LISAonthego blogs, social media, video and website needs. After a few minutes she recognized that look and nope the person a career coach didn’t understand most. The upsetting factor for LISAonthego was why they went along? Nodded yes, seemed to understand and not ask questions. LISAonthego stopped and asked the person questions about what she was talking about, assuming she could know especially being a career coach and realized she had no clue. LISAonthego apologized and changed subjects. Life experience has taught LISAonthego to be clear and specific whether to understand others or others to understand her and once established then it is the choice of herself and others to decided whether to accept or not the discussion at task. She feels if most people understood you, not accept what you are saying but understood your position this is communication. LISAonthego could say she understood the discussion and doesn’t accept it is a validation for others. This is communicating at its best. Being acknowledged and validated she feels is what most people are looking for, a response to your words. Next time you are having a discussion with someone try validating, acknowledging the other person and see how it feels. First for you then truly look at the other person and how it feels for them. LISAonthego says it feels great to be understood. Love, Laughter & Peace, LISAonthego

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