Holidays, just met, Why don’t you like me? LisaOnTheGo Blog

Holidays, just met, Why don’t you like me? LisaOnTheGo Blog      

Holidays, just met, Why, don’t you like me? LisaOnTheGo Blog

Holidays, just met, Why don’t you like me? LisaOnTheGo Blog

Just met, why don’t you like me? it’s the holiday season and it’s the time of year for networking, parties, and celebrations. It’s also the awkward time of year that spouses, friends or partners are required to take you to these events. You are the outsider.

Typically, we don’t know our spouses and partner’s, co-workers, bosses, business affiliates and yet we are required to socialize and be the person everyone loves.

However, this is not reality, its uncomfortable for everyone. Our partners or spouses could be telling everyone about their lives or they have lifestyle choices that aren’t acceptable or saying nothing at all. We truly don’t know how our spouses/partners represent their lives. An example: Imagine being Christian Grey or Anastasia Steel

Now you are at these events and you being the outsider is not fitting in and you don’t know why?

Here are some reasons:

  1. Talking politics or religion
  2. Talking loudly (we don’t know how loud our voices could be or carry)
  3. You are a know it all, you know everything and have the answers
  4. Talking about the drama and stories in your life
  5. You drank too much
  6. Someone’s gossip or judgments of you has affected others
  7. We talk about our personal lives that we assume our spouse/partners tell everyone or no one about

Remember these events are not about you or for you.

Here are some suggestions what to do:

  1. Be everyone’s best friend
  2. Make people feel good about themselves and ask about them
  3. Be light, smile and giggle
  4. Have fun
  5. Talk about the amazing food, weather, compliment clothing, jewelry, smile
  6. Cell phones shall be hidden and yet on hand
  7. Avoid heavy, tear-jerking topics by excusing yourself, (have your phone with you I am awaiting this text, the bar area is available to get a drink, restroom, dance etc.)
  8. Spouse and partners shall be nearby or next to you so you don’t feel excluded
  9. Have a plan with your spouse/partner to divert negativity in the job or personally
  10. Subtly, network minimally
  11. Dancing is the best diversion for your partner/spouse                                                                                                  

These events are not about you or for you and yet they could affect you. #LisaOnTheGo has learned to be light, giggle and smile a lot.

Be everyone’s best friend and yet no one’s friend.

This helps #LisaOnTheGo be in the moment, in her peace and have a great time.

Good Luck to you.

Happy Holidays, Love, Laughter & Peace, LisaOnTheGo

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Peace from the Heart, LisaOnTheGo Blogger

Peace from the Heart LisaOnTheGo Blogger

Peace from the heart, LisaOnTheGo Blogger.
We all have our stories and dramas. Some stories and dramas appear harder or tougher than others. In truth, it's not harder or tougher, it is how we respond or react to the stories and dramas.

Peace from the Heart, LisaOnTheGo Blogger

Peace from the Heart, LisaOnTheGo Blogger

Some of us are: Tough on the outside, appear full of confidence and have all the answers or we are like a teddy bear on the inside, mush we take everything personally. A teddy bear, come read, watch or listen at https://www.patreon.com/posts/16293477

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Judgments LisaOnTheGo Blog

Judgments LisaOnTheGo Blog

Judgments LisaOnTheGo Blog

Judgments LisaOnTheGo Blog

LisaOnTheGo Judgments. It is human nature that we judge others and ourselves.

We all think we are right in our judgments too. It is what we think and feel. We are so quick to judge that we don’t always have the facts until others are judging us.

Then we feel wait, you don’t understand, you don’t have the whole story. Have you walked this path? LisaOnTheGo doesn’t see the whole picture of all her stories, dramas and judgments. It is one of her lessons in life to learn about her. LisaOnTheGo doesn’t know herself, how could you? What makes you think you are so right? And then get so angry with LisaOnTheGo on your thoughts. #LisaOnTheGo has learned some things; one she chooses her peace above all else and to L.I.D.E. (LEEDY) https://spiritualfitnessonthego.com/lisaonthego-lide/ her stories, drama, and judgments. Also judging others is for her to look at herself. 

LisaOnTheGo had a judgment about someone on their addiction habits. LisaOnTheGo felt she is so right about them.Then #LisaOnTheGo laughs at herself and realizes this is not about them it is about herself. We all have addictions. LisaOnTheGo interpretation of addiction is taking an action that speaks to us. Its what we think feels good for us and resonates, like, smoking, drinking, eating, working, cleaning, exercising and the list goes on and on. None of us are perfect then again what is perfect?

LisaOnTheGo has made many mistakes, judgments and is learning to be with her spiritual mind to forgive others and her.

Forgiveness = forgiving you or myself for everything I didn't know, see or do.

Getting to know LisaOnTheGo is truly forgiving herself and acknowledging who she is, not what she is, who she is: smart, sexy, loves being her own best friend, loves and likes her children, kind, loving, caring, supportive, loves being with people, working, computers, marketing etc, etc. Learning to stop the judgments and be who she is and you are no longer defining others, LisaOnTheGo defines who she is, how about you?

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Mind=Blown by EA Prince

Mind=Blown by EA Prince

This will make you re-think your life.

Treat others the way you want to be treated and better. Treat others as shooting for the stars. This is how we impact other lives. Empowering Others to Inspire yours. Give to receive and receive to give. This is another inspirational video by EA Prince that is so true for LisaOnTheGo.

Have a great day. Love, Laughter & Peace, LisaOnTheGo

R U Calling? LisaOnTheGo Blog

R U Calling? LisaOnTheGo Blog

R U Calling? LisaOnTheGo Blog

R U Calling? LisaOnTheGo Blog

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In every moment we are calling for love, giving love or loving ourselves. Think about it in every moment we are asking for something, giving something or reminding us to love ourselves. This is a tough concept. What are you calling into your life?

Example: LisaOnTheGo says most of the time we love receiving phone calls, it’s why we answer the phone, and someone is thinking about us or giving us love or reminding us to love ourselves.

LisaOnTheGo's response to a phone call could be about calling for love, giving back love or keeping it for us depending on the conversation.

In life someone is phoning us: to see how we are, what’s new and staying in touch and they're giving us love or to tell us about there drama and stories, get advice or asking for something. This is a calling for love. In business, someone calling is asking for your product, knowledge or advice. They're giving a call for love or they could be giving something, placing an order, listening etc. this is giving love or you know it’s a scam phone call and this is about loving you (setting your boundaries).

Are you more of a caller for love or a giving love or a reminder to love you?

Getting this concept and watching the people around, explains a lot about you. Is someone in your life calling you for love? Or Are they calling about the drama and stories in their life, talking about themselves constantly and they can’t get enough time from you? Its all about them, this is referred to as an energy dumper.

What do you do about an energy dumper? Recognize that this is energy dumping and do things differently, LisaOnTheGo uses the tools and activities on Spiritualfitnessonthego.com. She would have the energy dumper read the LisaOnTheGo Blogs, help them to know they have choices or suggest changing their thoughts for them to see the issues differently. Sometimes we have energy dumpers in our lives and this is a mirror for us to teach us to love ourselves. 

LisaOnTheGo feels by loving us first MeMattersMost and being the light then you are the light for everyone else. Loving ourselves is checking in with us and prioritizing our lives then talking to the energy dumpers lovingly, caringly and supportively for the best for you and them.

A phone call is teaching ourselves that we are loving, understanding, supportive or we need to be setting boundaries. We have choices and reminding us to love ourselves. 

Are you calling for love into your life, giving love?

Have a great day. Love, Laughter & Peace, LisaOnTheGo

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